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Quick thought: It's my ADOS (Attention Deficit OH! Shiney!) that is my greatest challenge to overcome right now.
All of my best achievements have been by patiently persevering and pushing talents. Singing improves best if you do it every day, so does any form of dance or exercise. Relationships are best over time, with shared time and experience. School is a long series of small triumphs, but more importantly surviving the ongoing tragedies the flesh is heir too. (Hamlet, btw, was a wimp; he was in a bind, but the suicide out? Naw. It was go back to school, live off the money and being prince, and eventually be ousted, or kill his uncle. This teenaged angst did not become him (although I've seen it done well. Only because he stuck around a proved himself a problem did things go wrong so badly. If it had been written by Dumas, ah, the adventures! Anyway...ADOS!)
Where I fail is in not setting the schedule and thus having to decide too often and wasting time trapped in the choices. Something like Hamlet. Time, perhaps, to make the mistakes of either Othello (excess passion) or Porthos (but the cellar still has wine!)
(this rumination is thanks to Vytas, who asked me to enumerate to myself some of my qualities and virtues, to Korwyn, who introduced me to the concept of ADOS (and Cathyn too, who re-inforced it and reminded me of goals achieving) and to Swishy (named changed to protect the cute) who helps me with honesty and examination.)
All of my best achievements have been by patiently persevering and pushing talents. Singing improves best if you do it every day, so does any form of dance or exercise. Relationships are best over time, with shared time and experience. School is a long series of small triumphs, but more importantly surviving the ongoing tragedies the flesh is heir too. (Hamlet, btw, was a wimp; he was in a bind, but the suicide out? Naw. It was go back to school, live off the money and being prince, and eventually be ousted, or kill his uncle. This teenaged angst did not become him (although I've seen it done well. Only because he stuck around a proved himself a problem did things go wrong so badly. If it had been written by Dumas, ah, the adventures! Anyway...ADOS!)
Where I fail is in not setting the schedule and thus having to decide too often and wasting time trapped in the choices. Something like Hamlet. Time, perhaps, to make the mistakes of either Othello (excess passion) or Porthos (but the cellar still has wine!)
(this rumination is thanks to Vytas, who asked me to enumerate to myself some of my qualities and virtues, to Korwyn, who introduced me to the concept of ADOS (and Cathyn too, who re-inforced it and reminded me of goals achieving) and to Swishy (named changed to protect the cute) who helps me with honesty and examination.)